You know this is really interesting because once I asked my husband to take me to a local conscious community and he was like some of them would not have it. He even said by marrying me he was pretty much out to some people lol but I'm not even mad about it because I'd be wary, too you're right they come out of nowhere. I just couldn't believe how he didn't see the issue. The fiancee was even worse because she was so in love with him. Disgusting.