Thank you so much for your insight I really appreciate it. This is how I found it, too. Funnily enough, I now live with my sister and my niece is my baby. I remember holding her at two days old I couldn’t sleep watching her now she’s almost four and my little buddy. I still don’t want my own I am fulfilled. He just really wanted those kids and I don’t know it honestly almost killed us the divorce but like biological kids was this man’s dream that was it like I know it’s the same for your family and they compromised, but I’m pretty sure he would’ve left anyway eventually over it I could see it in his eyes. I’ll be writing about this more look out for it and thank you so much for commenting. It means a lot.