Shelly what in the actual hell??? Did he really think you were that stupid? My God. At least my ex-husband was the nicest guy ever. He just wanted a quieter life than I did. Yours takes the cake. What an insult to an intelligent, lovely woman. I am so sorry. It’s so funny you commented this, because right after you saw it, I had ANOTHER incident! I’m going to write about it tomorrow. Men. I swear.