John this is very thought out point I love it, thank you! You’re right clothes are very important. If my boss had told me it was too much I’d have happily listened. It wasn’t even that scandalous of a shirt though lmao. I would rather someone tell me I look dumb so I can fix it than continue on but Mark just didn’t make sense to me. I really did try to work with him but like you said ghosting sometimes is the only option.