In my twenties I gained a considerable amount of weight and my mom hired me a personal trainer. I was 150 lbs., and this man made me feel like I was 600. It was the most degrading experience of my life. I ended up quitting after he went into a rage on the phone and screamed about how fat and worthless I was. I only wanted to reschedule a meeting. I am sorry she did that to you. Not cool. Glad you found someone you can work with.