I'm so glad you get it. Like, I wasn't offended but ew. Lol. It's just not an attractive thing to say. Oh, yeah that's a good one. I haven't heard that yet because I look white but I get it. My ex-husband and I used to get looks but never any questions. (He was black.)

I was about to write a story about the "I like big girls" one I mentioned. That was such a weird night lmao.