Charlotte Franklin this honestly makes writing this all worth it to see that we have a shared experience together. What is it with these beautiful South African men? I honestly think if I hadn’t gone through my divorce and become really indifferent and detached I would have been yo-yoed and toyed with as well.

I felt so bad for that young girl when I saw them. I could handle it but she looked really, really smitten. They are so good at collecting women it’s like an artform for them.

I am so sorry that happened to you. Really, I am.